Life's pretty straight without Bender!

It's free to download, free to use, and a quick and easy sign-up... we don't ask for your email so discretion is guaranteed!

Find gay, bi or curious guys nearby with Bender,
the gay dating app

200,000 downloads a month

5 Million messages sent per day

160+ countries using it today

#1 gay dating app in spain

★ ★ ★ ★ on play store

Video messages.

Want to get know someone better? Easily create, send and receive video messages, up to 60 seconds long.

Travel mode.

Don't just use Bender at home, wherever you go in the world, you can change your location and check out the local scene, it's used in over 160 countries and growing. You can even translate messages from another language.


Want to see who's been checking you out? Bender's "tracks" feature let's you see the last 50 guys who viewed your profile, and even tells you what they think of you!

Free push notifications.

Stay logged in even when Brenda is closed, and with unlimited push messages you'll know straight away when you have messages waiting!

10 photos per profile.

Upload up to 10 photos, more than most other apps.

Private photos.

You can easily lock your face pics for extra privacy.

Pin number protected.

Lock the app to keep out prying eyes.

Translate messages.

Chat to guys in any language using our built-in translator

We're listening – tell us what you think…

We're always trying to improve Bender, let us know about your experience... email us at

Great This app is amazing I've made tons of friends and met great guys :)

- Brian W.

"Go bender! Probably the best app on here for gay dating. Easy to use and looks smart"

- xman75.

"It's why Grindr is yesterday. I've had Bender 6 months now and not looked back.

- Stephen W.